Penis Size and Cuckoldry.

A great deal is made of cock size. While it is true that many/most women prefer a large penis, this is not the only reason why we may cuckold our husbands.

Premature ejaculators (quick comers), pinheaded dicks that are long but thin, lack of intensity, lack of passion, lack of effort, lack of desire, health problems, impotence, plus many other examples may all be reasons why some women are not satisfied sexually by their husbands.

My husband has an average to above average sized penis. He is a "quick comer" and ejaculates within about 20 seconds once he is fully inside me. Massive disappointment for me, and one that I never let him forget. When I point out that he is an inferior lover, it's not due to the size of his equipment (though another inch or two would be fine) its his leaving me hanging and unsatisfied. So I have superior lovers take care of what he can not and I love rubbing his face in it, figuratively and literally.

And while many online stories and themes revolve around penis size, in the real world we may have many reasons for seeking out a lover on the side.

Both sexes can tend to be somewhat shallow, but often we are more so than men. I know most women hate when its said, but the truth is the truth. Compliments, being desired, being sought after boosts the spirits and the ego. Some women enjoy the tease game, some prefer to take the tease all the way. Having another man aroused and being so eager to pound your pussy makes many middle-aged bored housewives feel younger and more attractive.

Companionship. Some women who may have been married for 15 years are tired of sitting and watching their husband drift off to sleep every Sunday watching cars going in circles (or men playing with any kind of balls) after a few beers. She simply enjoys the company of other men, especially one who will pay attention to her and make her feel special and desirable. Sure, sex is part of it, but for some just being with an attentive male is enough reason.

Health issues. Some guys as they age lose their ability or desire for sex. Yes, a little blue pill can help some, but others don't want the pill or the pussy. They just don't care about sex anymore.
Not all women who are cuckolding their husbands (in fact, the majority) are running home with a creampie pussy and sitting on their husbands face. In many cases he knows of her dalliances but prefers to turn a blind eye as long as it does not embarrass the family. Some just prefer to be left alone and while he loves her and wants her to be happy, does not want to see, hear, taste, touch, smell or know about any aspect of it. In fact, of the few couples I know personally where she has a lover on the side, the arrangement matches this example rather than what I live and do to my husband and what so many fantasize about.

A lady I've known for quite a few years (but rarely see as she lives an hour away) cuckolds her husband but her main objective is not really even sex. I mean she enjoys the sex but she just loves to go out and he's a homebody. They are about 10 years older than me and he's sort of the typical overweight/slow-moving, prefers to sit at home and read and watch TV type and she's the workout freak, well-groomed, "Cougar/Milf" type. She just wants to be wined and dined and taken out to parties and dancing. It's not a gold digger thing with her as they are very comfortable financially, she just enjoys the company of men and the night life and sort of views exchanging sex as a trade-off for their company. She wins, they win, her husband who can't be bothered wins.

And then of course there are those like yours truly....who just have a high sex drive and get bored easily. I've had lovers that have roughly the same size penis as my husband but I've thoroughly enjoyed them. That intensity, that "first-time-fuck-in-the-back-seat-of-your-parents-car-feeling" as a teenager intensity is what I love. And of course my sadistic nature also loves the before and after of what I put my cuckold husband through. But that's just me being a dominant bitch. :)

Anyhow, just a few personal thoughts........

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I had sex with my cuckold husband tonight.

It was interesting as he, and it, was actually quite good. It was sort of like his love/hate dynamic for what I do to him, and things I make him do, encouraged him to elevate his efforts.

His dick seemed harder and even longer and thicker than usual. He lasted quite a bit longer before coming than his average time, and it was just better.

So that raises an interesting hypothetical question. If an inadequate husband who was being cuckolded for years suddenly improves, does his HotWife eventually become satisfied with him and then cease having lovers?

I mean its just a question, this will never apply to me. :)

Obsession with Pussy.

Ahh, gotcha with the title yes? :)
This is not about men's obsession with pussy, but rather women's. Actually, it did start with men, young males at the gym. I was doing a back workout and there were 3 guys, maybe early 20s a few machines over. As guys are known to do, it was a "ego lifting" night for them. So the usual type of thing, one or two are a bit stronger than the others, and when one could not lift whatever weight, the others would say "Come on Pussy", and laugh and joke around etc.
Interesting how guys that spend their whole lives trying to figure out how to find women to let them kiss, lick, eat and fuck her pussy, also use it as a derogatory name for each other, but that's another story.
So, I then went to do some more cardio and began thinking about this obsession guys have. But then it occurred to me, we have as much or more than they do, but from a different perspective and agenda.
We are endlessly thinking about our pussies, one way or the other.
We are either wondering when some guy will put his dick in, or wishing some guy would pull his dick out.
We are either distressed as it is the time of the month, or relieved that that time is over and done with.
We are endlessly contemplating shaving, or not, or waxing, or trimming or dying it.
Some are worried about how it looks, smells, tastes. Is it tight enough? Is it too tight? Does he like it? Will he grow tired of it? Will I grow tired of his dick? Do I want/need/deserve a bigger one? A smaller one? Longer, thicker, thinner? Maybe I should live it up more and have two at the same time?
Why is "He" fucking her and why does he not want to fuck me? Why does he want to fuck me and not her? Whats wrong with her? Whats wrong with me? Who's getting it and who's not and why and when and how often?
For those of us that squirt, well, lets just say there is always something damp and wet and moist and leaking going on.... and its not always fun.
Some are freaking out that its near "biological clock run out time", and they need to find the right guy to have kids before its too late.
Cock in. Cock out. Cock in and baby comes out. Self esteem issues, health issues, gyno trips, concerns, products, scents, the lsit goes on and on.....and all you guys worry about is your dicks and when she will let you explode inside her. :)

Daily Life of a FemDom Cuckoldress.

{Hoped for daily life plan.:}

Wake up at noon.
 Have coffee and start planning my day.
 Make appointment with Amanda for a massage later in the day.
 Make appointment with Terri for Brazilian wax later in the day.
 Make appointment for the dog groomers to come over later in the day.
 Call Tina and discuss with her a hairstyle seen on a magazine on page 42.
 Make an appointment to spend time with new Spanish lover Federico.
 Yell downstairs at "cocky" to make sure we have plenty of condoms for later.
 Talk to gardeners about trimming trees and sodding side of home.
 Plan a late lunch with best friend Karina.
 Plan extra long cardio session, then a lite snack before going to Dojo.
 Look forward to long relaxing hot bath after a lovely dinner prepared by new private chef Jill, followed by an evening of hot kinky sex.

{Actual day of reality.}

Wake up with a slight hangover and find out we are out of coffee.
 Make a bunch of phone calls to people who won't answer their fucking cell phones or have a series of dropped calls.
 Hear a ruckus and find out that stupid Federico (the hot non-English speaking Spanish lover) showed up hours early, drunk and confused, is molesting Amanda in the garage.
 Look out in the yard with a sigh of resignation and see my lovely herd of dogs sniffing each others asses and licking where they used to have balls.
 Hear another ruckus in the yard and find out that immigration showed up and are arresting the gardeners, who rather than trimming my trees, cut some down.
 Get a phone call from Jill (who knew a bit of my rather "risque" lifestyle) and as she just became a born again Christian, one hour ago, is quitting, but she assures me she will pray for my soul.
 Realize that I left the tub running and I now have a small pond in the the upstairs bathroom.
 Run through the house screaming with insanity only to find that my idiot husband bought "condiments" rather than condoms.

Chug small bottle of Merlot, go online and start bitching at people, lol. :)

Cuckoldry, Kink and Religion.

Religion, in most aspects, conflicts with nearly everything sexual, other than the standard missionary position for reproduction type sex. If one wants to follow the doctrine, one is living in sin with any sort of pre-marital sex, extra-martial sex, masturbation for some, fantasy, pornography etc. Unitarian churches may have a different perception or agenda on this, I'm not totally sure. But certainly of the big 3 Monos, well, they all have the same doctrine.

So for those that have a religious or spiritual belief along those lines, how do you align that with cuckolding and or other forms of kinky sex? Or do you?

I always think people should consider that the core value and purpose of religion is not what many think or have been taught. Keep in mind that mere mortals, average men wrote the scriptures. The bible has been hacked up, amended, translated, altered, edited, had portions deleted thousands of times over the last couple thousand years.

Man (as in mankind) being what he is, often gets things wrong, or focus's on the wrong things. If one were to look at it that the main agenda of religion (while here on earth) as being kindness, compassion, charity, altruism, benevolence, forgiveness etc, whom you sleep with is of no relevance as long as it is consensual.

What happens in the afterlife is unknown, but I have always felt that the wrath of God is not going to be over sex, sexual choices or inclinations, but rather about hate, murder, apathy towards those less fortunate, rape, child abuse and crimes like that.

Obviously I could be wrong, but only each individual can make the effort to separate out the reality of God and the fiction of man made religion.
Right?
Wrong?  

Queening and Facesitting Chairs.

I mentioned this couple in an earlier post but as they sent more photos I thought I would follow-up on it. Quick recap, they used one of my Queening Throne designs and then wanted to let me to know it came out well. I am impressed with the modifications he did and I love how it looks. According to a few comments and e-mails, they are using it quite a bit, so that makes me happy, and no doubt is making her *very* happy. :) On a side note, they are both great looking. He has a nice build and although I can't see his face he is no doubt a good-looking guy. She is (obviously) a smokin-hot-hottie and I would do her in a second, and I'm not really even bisexual, lol. They must be having fun though as they took quite a few photos with different attire so I assume that may mean different nights. I also like whatever torment she is doing to his balls. I personally prefer a riding crop, but maybe hers is at the cleaners, haha. Anyhow, my site where I have this model and several other designs is here. My book with the written instructions is here and the e-book version is here. And of course my other books/e-books are on my links or my Amazon profile. First two photos are of me and the original, the other three are of them. :)